So the day has came, when my youngest son asked how can you be married to two men. I almost wished that I was forever mute when the question was posed. I tried to say it is not right, but some people will follow the own thinking and think that is ri…
Thanks Remnkemi...The issue that I struggle the most with is to how to tell the kids that we love God, we know divorce against God, the concept of monogamy and in the meantime their parent is doing just that. I pray for their parent for forgiveness …
The priests are not yet thinking of this point. They are praying (as me) for reconciliation. I re empathize to the kids that God, mom and Dad love them the most and will take care of them forever.
This might be a hard question, but how do you explain divorce (when it happens) in a Christian way to kids at school age. If the adulterous goes out and gets married. How can you explain that to kids at school age (you don't want to alienate the adu…
I have a question. What is the church's position in regards to emotional adultery. And if one spouse claims one day that the spouse committed adultery (sexually) and the next day claims it was just to torture the other spouse?
Thanks
I appreciate the support and prayers. It is now a constant emotional battle as I am reminded that there will be a better husband and her and the kids will be staying with him. I said I will love to the last day of my life and the answer was "even wi…
Thanks for your help and support..i lack guidance even to seperate in a civil way..all I can see is someone who is fighting to destroy the family..saying that God will forgive..and now she wants all the money to sustain the lifestyle
The only reason that I gave in to her demands is her threats and the destruction..things I was trying to prevent my kids from as well as protect her career.all back fires...I ask the lord for forgiveness and repentance
I gave all..i am actually using the 40 day love dare challenge coming from the christian marriage move fireproof...nothing..she is saying good for you but I need to start a newlife
I had my shares of mistakes. Like reacting to her controlling nature and reacting to her disrespect and sometimes forced confinement. I have accepted things humans shouldn't accept. I was never forceful in solving the problems. As Jesus would take c…
Any help or tips will be greatly appreciated. Wife have said that she will be looking To get married. Even outside the faith as the orthdox church will not allow divorce. How should I deal with this? I might be selfish to think that after all the ti…
Hi again, now my wife felt that she is a miserable..and she is now working on separation paper ...I have went to three priests..marriage counselor..her mind is made up..she suffered depression as a result of her work assignment..I am not trying to v…
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[quote author=Joshuaa link=topic=11418.msg137776#msg137776 date=1305194286]
Hello Miracleseek,
I get the feeling your wife is jealous. This comes a…
Hi everyone,
Thanks for your continuous support...I have a favor to ask..I heard Dr. Nabil Baky is a great marriage counselor...I tried to reach him in 3 yrs ago I was successful...but I couldn't nowadays...it would be great if somebody has his phon…
Thanks all for your constant support ...I heard that bishop Paula is in North America these days..A priest adviced me to get the bishop's advice...does anyone know his schedule in Canada..or If I can contact him somehow...
Thanks
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Greetings again,
I will need to admit that this is definitely a cross that you will need to endure for sometime, until the Lord glorifies.
I would like, however, to commen…
[quote author=Unworthy1 link=topic=11418.msg137795#msg137795 date=1305227709]
miracleseek,
May God grant you wisdom and patience.
You must find out WHY your wife is doing all of this. This is critical in finding the solution. You have listed all…
[quote author=mabsoota link=topic=11418.msg137794#msg137794 date=1305227523]
we will all pray for you in this difficult situation.
i know a similar situation like this (yes, the police were involved to protect the husband - it is not only women who …
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Have you tried seeking the help and advice of Anba Paula? He's the head in the Coptic Church of marriage and relationship issues.
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I have previously tried emailing …
[quote author=+Pistavros+ link=topic=11418.msg137785#msg137785 date=1305211659]
Miracleseek,
I'm truly sorry for all what you went through, and I'm praying for you that God may intervene quickly and take control of your lives.
I'm sure you probab…
The feeling of regret and guilt are always hunting me...I need spritual guidance...When I leave this world ..I have to account for myself and my kids and my wife...Will God ever forgive me for not isolating those kids form the unhealthy enviroment..…