[quote author=Wasim link=board=1;threadid=577;start=30#msg9923 date=1093978451] [quote author=$herry link=board=1;threadid=577;start=30#msg9899 date=1093957665] [move][quote author=MarMar91 link=board=1;threadid=577;start=30#msg9821 date=1093843914] lol, ya young is good, 20 is just too young 22 is good [/move] ok 19 is great 20-22 is excellent 25 ya better get married if its ur will ok and matt i told jenny not to say that and that is kinda true
according to sherry i better have a bride by now or i am going to be late in the race (i am 19 by the way)
ok i missed a lot on this thread but im sain if ur redy wen ur 19 thats like the minimum kinda age then yeh 25-27 is kinda like maximum well that is wat id think but hey do wat u like ok GBU
Hey guys, I was just wondering why it's "wrong" for a girl to be older than a guy she's marrying. And you guys said that the age diffrence between a man and a woman is a man can be up to 5 years older than the woman but what if the woman was 1-5 years older than the man?
arite.. i afantacize so i want to get married either really close to finishing college or right after college so lik between 23-27... and i want twin girls and my husband to end up being a priest.. yes im wierd.. but since this sites bout marriage and how and wen we want it..just thought id share..
age doesnt matter much if the two people r like 19 and 20 20 and 21 21 and 22 22 and 23
these ages can be of either boy or girl.. it doesnt matter here if the girl is older than the boy or the boy is older than the girl in this situation.. there r more important things that matters between them at this stage in life..
do u see a pattern in the ages above?
u notice that this is the time when BOTH individuals have entered university or college.. and theyr exposed to the same environments and difficulties in life.. they go through the same experience..
BUT
when theyr like
15 and 20 15 and 18 16 and 19
notice these ages reflect two different environments.. one is still in highschool and the other one is in college or uni..
it doesnt make sense for two people to become closer if they cant relate to each other's environments..
i think we should have a tasbeha.org wedding, premature one, to show people who want to date n ting how hard it is.. sorta like "survivor: on-line coptic marriage"... volunteers ebleeze? ;D
[quote author=god child link=board=1;threadid=577;start=0#msg9613 date=1093744424] I actually don't want to get married - however, IF it is God's will for me, i'm sure He'll change how i feel about it.
You said: "If you do it too early you might waste your life" - hmm... coming from someone who doesn't want to get married - i really don't think married life is "wasted" life ;) Its just a different type of life-style.
In answer to your question - i think it depends on maturity and not so much age - I mean, i have some friends who are 30 and NO-WHERE near ready to get married. Its a huge deal. Its not just like getting a flat-mate or something... so yeh... I'm not too sure if age is that relevant.
Having said that, stats say that ppl who are married at 24 are 5 times more likely to end up divorced, than if they married that same person at 27 [its to do with the whole maturity thing..] But yeh - nowadays they find stats to prove everything... so i'm not sure what that says...
wow even in marriage u guys r thinking about Jesus.....!!! you guys r so smart the 70s age range is for sure a wise choice considering (egyptians die earlier than americans.....i mean average death rate) by 70 one will have probably died thus, since you are dead, you will be marrying your bridegroom ..Jesus..since you will be with Him in heaven very smart decision i totally agree 70 is a great age :P
hahaha i was thinking about that ironically (for real this time) but if i was to get married in that sense, i'd want to get married right now.... no engagement period plz! lol but i'd want to be married to the perfect person.. not the other one
I think there shouldnt be a "specific age", because there is this love and passion that exists within all of us; it is burried deep down in the inside of our hearts. When you find this true love that fills your whole heart and whole world, you will know that he/ she is the right person for you. You would be gazing into his/her eyes and him in yours endlessly and you would never get bored, or just be holding hands and never wanting to let go. So when you find this right person that matches you, I think then it is the right time.
yeah, i cant wait to get married because its a milestone in my life, but if u think about it, its a kind of enslavment. you become one with ur husband, u are him and he is u,
Im dont know...whenever its good for me but u like im guna start looking out for a serious relationship when im like 19 or sumthin then hopefully i wanna get married in my early 20s.
hello, i think u don't have 2 marry while u're still in collage and if that is somethin' that u think about it too much pray an' ask God so he'll choose U the life in which you'll be with him always :)
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lol, ya young is good, 20 is just too young 22 is good
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ok 19 is great 20-22 is excellent 25 ya better get married if its ur will
ok and matt i told jenny not to say that and that is kinda true
according to sherry i better have a bride by now or i am going to be late in the race (i am 19 by the way)
ok i missed a lot on this thread but im sain if ur redy wen ur 19 thats like the minimum kinda age then yeh 25-27 is kinda like maximum
well that is wat id think but hey do wat u like
ok GBU
no comment ;D
;)
I was just wondering why it's "wrong" for a girl to be older than a guy she's marrying. And you guys said that the age diffrence between a man and a woman is a man can be up to 5 years older than the woman but what if the woman was 1-5 years older than the man?
Mike
..oh ya and i have to get married on st mary's feast, that would be a cool wedding!
19 and 20
20 and 21
21 and 22
22 and 23
these ages can be of either boy or girl.. it doesnt matter here if the girl is older than the boy or the boy is older than the girl in this situation.. there r more important things that matters between them at this stage in life..
do u see a pattern in the ages above?
u notice that this is the time when BOTH individuals have entered university or college.. and theyr exposed to the same environments and difficulties in life.. they go through the same experience..
BUT
when theyr like
15 and 20
15 and 18
16 and 19
notice these ages reflect two different environments.. one is still in highschool and the other one is in college or uni..
it doesnt make sense for two people to become closer if they cant relate to each other's environments..
any feedback?
GB
most people dont lol
good..im finally understood! ;)
my aunty and uncles age is 12 yrs apart!!!! and she got married wen she was 16!!!!
buuuuuttt u cant do that now...
anyone thinking of not getting married??
GBU ;)
I actually don't want to get married - however, IF it is God's will for me, i'm sure He'll change how i feel about it.
You said: "If you do it too early you might waste your life" - hmm... coming from someone who doesn't want to get married - i really don't think married life is "wasted" life ;) Its just a different type of life-style.
In answer to your question - i think it depends on maturity and not so much age - I mean, i have some friends who are 30 and NO-WHERE near ready to get married. Its a huge deal. Its not just like getting a flat-mate or something... so yeh... I'm not too sure if age is that relevant.
Having said that, stats say that ppl who are married at 24 are 5 times more likely to end up divorced, than if they married that same person at 27 [its to do with the whole maturity thing..] But yeh - nowadays they find stats to prove everything... so i'm not sure what that says...
This topic was also discussed here: http://www.mycopticchurch.com/ask/Messages/ViewThread.cfm?ThreadID=1947#9
Check it out :)
lol.... maybe 73 is more reasonable
lots of fish in the sea at that time ;) lol
GBU ;)
and o-balkom...((excuse my arabic))
you guys r so smart the 70s age range is for sure a wise choice
considering (egyptians die earlier than americans.....i mean average death rate)
by 70 one will have probably died
thus,
since you are dead, you will be marrying your bridegroom ..Jesus..since you will be with Him in heaven
very smart decision i totally agree 70 is a great age :P
i was thinking about that ironically (for real this time)
but if i was to get married in that sense, i'd want to get married right now.... no engagement period plz! lol
but i'd want to be married to the perfect person.. not the other one
When do I want to get married? Now!
LOOOL :D can't say the same
definetly not before i finish college :)
i think u don't have 2 marry while u're still in collage and if that is somethin' that u think about it too much pray an' ask God so he'll choose U the life in which you'll be with him always :)