My dad has a shop and I work in it..

They sell stuff like candles, lighters, cd holders, necklaces like horoscope.. cancer, arius (?) ,scorpio (?) ... And other stuff which I think is evil or can be related to sin..
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Am I allowed to sell these things? would I not be participating (?) in the peoples sins?

I think I would be making my dad lose money by not selling these things..

One monk said its okay to own a video shop.. I think its wrong

Comments

  • some Christians own liquor shops; i dont see why not...

    PEACE
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  • I think thats wrong..
  • i think it's wrong also... its kind of saying... I'm encouraging people to do something that i personally don't believe in. Your encouraging the wrong things... i remember i worked for a liqour company that specialised in wines. I asked for Spiritual advice about this, and because i was only working there part-time and i am stil studing my advisor told me if i wanted to stick to it i could. but after a while i felt uncomfortable selling something that i don't like to encourage all together.
  • There are 2 ways to solve this problem.

    One way is to destroy the source of sin which represents the seller of sinful products

    Another way is control the hearts of those that purchase the sinful products.

    The liquor industry, or horoscope (or witchcraft) industry, or even pharmaceutical industries, which sell controversial oral contraceptives, like the recently approved morning-after pill, will never be shutdown.

    Our goal to solve this problem is from the second way which is to stop the hearts of those purchasing these products, not by destroying the source which can never be destroyed in this world. And if we do accomplish that your total sales of your store might be down, lol, sry its 5 AM and i am tired. Goodnight

    May The Lord Be With You.

    PEACE
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  • [quote author=JesusisKingofKings link=board=1;threadid=4328;start=0#msg59501 date=1156484608]
    They sell stuff like candles, lighters, cd holders, necklaces like horoscope.. cancer, arius (?) ,scorpio (?) ... And other stuff which I think is evil or can be related to sin..
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    Am I allowed to sell these things? would I not be participating (?) in the peoples sins?

    I think I would be making my dad lose money by not selling these things..

    One Monk I think said to someone it is okay for that person to open a video shop.. dont you think this is wrong?



    Well this is what abouna said one time about a liquor store. He said if you acutily go tell ppl come and buy this from me, that's a sin, or if you give uneraged wrong stuff or if you acuitly cheet in somthing concerning that, that's a sin. but if you just selling stuff to the right people (mean in age by showing ID atleast) ther is nothing wrong with it.
  • Well this is what abouna said one time about a liquor store. He said if you acutily go tell ppl come and buy this from me, that's a sin, or if you give uneraged wrong stuff or if you acuitly cheet in somthing concerning that, that's a sin. but if you just selling stuff to the right people (mean in age by showing ID atleast) ther is nothing wrong with it.

    Really!!! wow ok... never thought about it in that way... i still dont feel comfortable about it though... i mean yea God has given every individual free will so if they drink alchole or not... is up to them! BUT... why should we add to the affect of it!! why can't we stand out of the crowd and say NO! its not accepted and i won't endorse it in anyway!?

    GB... Dee. :D
  • Hello,
    I think that this is wrong what you and your dad is doing. I think you should stop and it doesnt madder if your dad doesnt have any more money. He deserve's no money if he sells bad things.

    Juliann
  • that was a little harshly said... but i understand what you mean.
  • hey i have a question kinda related

    well i want to ask d u think it is wrong do defend criminals? because i think not but there was a person who told me that people who do dont have a good conscience and are not good christians.

    what do u guys think?


    Kristina123
  • i guess if ur heart agrees with what u r doing then go 4 it...........
  • i can imagine how hard it is for u as it is ur dad`s shop,and u can`t just go to ur dad and tell him :dad,u shouldn`t sell such things .
    but at least try to find other work away from ur dad`s shop.and may be by time u would be able to convenice him that what he sells is wrong.and plz don`t say that ur dad needs u to help him with the shop ( i always hear this :-\ )
  • [quote author=JesusisKingofKings link=board=1;threadid=4328;start=0#msg59501 date=1156484608]
    They sell stuff like candles, lighters, cd holders, necklaces like horoscope.. cancer, arius (?) ,scorpio (?) ... And other stuff which I think is evil or can be related to sin..






    okay guys, with alll due respect whats wrong with candles, lighters, cd holders, and necklaces....these are all everyday neccessities... i dont see the problem with them khalisss.

    I think we're being a little too critical and missing the point...these are all just petty items and as long as they dont take our focus away from God then thats fine. What im basically trying to say is this wont jeapordize ur spiritual life...and its not like you are encouraging people to believe in these horoscopes or anything ....if you're not the one sellling it, they'll just go to the next conveniience store and get it from there...


  • yea i agree with Maryann23

    for example, say you work at Mcdonalds and the church is fasting....and you're serving non-seeyami food...what difference does it make...its not like these people would be fasting if you werent there...

    Its a diffferent story however if you're at school or sumthing and you get the opportunity to voice ur opinion on these isssues...

    jeeez, we reallly dont neeed to be so radical.
  • "jeeez, we reallly dont neeed to be so radical." LOL; We are Orthodox!
  • orthodoxy simply means the "right/ straight path"...were traditional but we dont hafta impose our beliefs and traditions on others.

    Taliban bands music tapes ... are we to be like them. Like God gave us the choice to do whats right, He didnt just put us in a sin-proof world.. or else how can he reward us? :)
  • i was j/k Coptic4Life, lol

    I dont know if you read what i said a while ago but i said:

    There are 2 ways to solve this problem.

    One way is to destroy the source of sin which represents the seller of sinful products

    Another way is control the hearts of those that purchase the sinful products.

    The liquor industry, or horoscope (or witchcraft) industry, or even pharmaceutical industries, which sell controversial oral contraceptives, like the recently approved morning-after pill, will never be shutdown.

    Our goal to solve this problem is from the second way which is to stop the hearts of those purchasing these products, not by destroying the source which can never be destroyed in this world. And if we do accomplish that your total sales of your store might be down, lol, sry its 5 AM and i am tired. Goodnight

    May The Lord Be With You.

    PEACE
    <><
  • oh okay ....was that you :P lol, you're the only one i agreee withhhh ;D
  • i dont think that it is wrong tosell those things u just have to be careful of who u r going to sell it 2

    Your dad is only doing his job

    The onlyway that is going to be a sin is if u sell it to young kids

    other than that u r not doing anything wrong
    God Bless

    ~cgfe~
  • I think I would be doing wrong selling them..

    Dont you think selling pornography to someone is wrong even if the person was over 18?

    ..
    But I should maybe put the products downstairs in the basement.. but there is so many things maybe which I think I should not sell..
  • my FOC is okay with me selling horoscope stuff.. etc

    Seemed weird or something to me that he would be okay with that..

    Where then does standing up for our beliefs come in?

    I think I am going to follow his advice anyway.. since some other monk or priest I think would agree with my priest..

    to me though its smaller or something .. it seems to me like selling drugs..and letting people sin.

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