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should i go get help?
i have lost everything i have felt pain i just keep crying everything has just hit me hard i do not sleep should i just go to the hospital and request to stay in there for a very long time? its to much to handle i cant live without one person i really cant
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i have lost everything i have felt pain i just keep crying everything has just hit me hard i do not sleep should i just go to the hospital and request to stay in there for a very long time? its to much to handle i cant live without one person i really cant
Forget about everything, piss off to a new city, leaving all your problems at the departure gate, and start fresh. Really, you seem like a guy wanting certain things and when something happens that ruin your progress you collapsed. Get up, Man! The world is filled with humans! Forget everyone that hurt or affected you negatively and fly off, restarting and jumpstarting your life. Seriously, Life is too good for being stuck in a hospital. Go enjoy it, with people or alone!
6 The LORD is on my side;
I will not fear.
What can man do to me?
7 The LORD is for me among those who help me;
Therefore I shall see my desire on those who hate me.
8 It is better to trust in the LORD
Than to put confidence in man.
9 It is better to trust in the LORD
Than to put confidence in princes.
GBU
Hi Bigeee,
To follow GOD we sometimes have to do the opposite of where we're at. You seems to me that your feeling alone, so you seeks others. But GOD wants us to be free. So he tries to get us to be independant. Independance would be a big problem for someone who feels they are alone. It's an opposite. So if GOD had got you to be independant then, I guess, GOD will have defeated your lonelyness.
There has to be movement, so try not to judge, as this is comdemnation. To comdemn is a finish, so nothing moves from there. The church is dogmatic, so it does'nt change it what it believes, that's all. Try not to blame others for your lonelyness. We're still here on this web wanting to help you.
GOD bless you Bigeee.
i am broken down inside damaged i can never say i love you to any other girl even if her family accepts me cause id be lying cause i only love 1 girl and the fact i dont give up though hell basically should show i love her but people can be cold
how can a person say i love you one minute then the next say i lost feelings for you then say there in church crying cause i do not want to be there friend and that they still love me all in 1 hour time
how can i have taking that? but yet i still love this person i mean i did something very bad saturday night to her but it is cause i have nothing to hide cause i make mistakes but i knwo she is not one of them
i was always there for this person no matter what and yes i might have made mistakes with this person but yet i gaveher all my love no matter what
yea i said id like my stuff back the gifts i gave her but i did not want them back really i said that to trick her so she can meet me so i can see her and give her a hug cause i been having nightmares about this person dying
i am just so dead inside
Abba Nilus said 'Do not always be wanting everything to turn out as you think it should, but rather as God pleases, then you will be undisturbed and thankful in your prayer.'
I know it seems impossible to imagine now, but God has some other plan for you that may not include this girl. Also, you may think that you'll only love one girl, but that's not actually true. It just feels like that when you meet someone you care about. But just like you met this one that you care about who it didn't work out with, you will meet another you will care about who it WILL work out with, in God's time.
Why do you worry too much about this situation.. is it not in God's hands? Can anything in God's hands be nothing but good? - even if we can't see it? Trust He will solve it to the best, whether you like the results or not. Trust that He is your heavenly Father Who loves you more than anyone in this world can and does what is best for you.
"Look at the birds of the air, for they neither sow nor reap nor gather into barns; yet your heavenly Father feeds them. Are you not of more value than they? Which of you by worrying can add one cubit to his stature?" - Matthew 6:26-27
If we took control of our lives instead of God, it surely would have diminished from existence long ago.
If He takes this girl away from you, should you be upset with God? No. Because He can see what we can't. He can see, for example, that this girl isn't compatible with you or whatever.. stand up in all confidence and move on.
You maybe are focusing too much on this girl for your happiness. Try not to focus too much on people for happiness. Try to focus on God, He is the one who can truely give joy. In due time God will answer about marriage (but there's a possibility we could end up dying tonight so we shouldn't focus that much on temporary things but rather on things that are eternal...)
God is the one who puts these people in our life so thank Him for His gifts, and whether these affect your life in a positive way or a negative way, try to see what lessons you can learn and apply them to your life.
Did God give us this life to worry about what people think of us, whether they love us? Not exactly. It's the difference we make in people's lives through serving them is what matters. Pope Kyrillos used to say, "love people but stay away from people" meaning, love people, but don't get too comfortable with them that we lose respect/manners for eachother.
God doesn't give us the people we want. He gives us the people we need. To help us, to hurt us, to love us, to leave us, to make us into the person He wants us to be.
and in every situation, good or bad, thank Him! God knows what He's doing.
GOD gives us the free will, but our parents don't. Sometimes it's just forced on us, and we get little or no say.
Reality, sadly, isn't like the love stories you see in movies. Falling in love is a bonus in marriage. It doesn't happen often.
this is exactly what is happening with me now
just cause my family is muslim is not fair i try very hard to be a better person
and her friends judge me even before knowing me just cause i use to be muslim my actions are knowen for the best intent i defended this 1 person through thiick and think
i love this girl so much how can i give up on true love i wont just cause my familys is muslim i chose christ that should not be forgotten at all
i really love this girl and like for her mom to not want me for her daugther just cause of my back round is very unfair
i asked about would jesus say no to me marrying this girl he said no jesus would not say no but her parents would just cause my family backround
but yet we always say what would jesus do? well if abouna himself said jesus would not say no he would approve why would her parents say no just cause my family i mean i came to christ did i not
so basically my baptisem i nthis case means nothing?
its very unfair sitatuion it really is
Now this particular passage stands out amongst all of the other ones in Luke 16 to me in how God deals with his servants.* "Whoever can be trusted with very little can also be trusted with much, and whoever is dishonest with very little will also be dishonest with much."* This isn't the only time God says this.* This is the entire lesson of the parable of the talents wherein the Master always replies to the servant who >does well with what he is given< with this statement "21"His master replied, 'Well done, good and faithful servant! You have been faithful with a few things; I will put you in charge of many things. Come and share your master's happiness!'"*
So my question to you who seek marriage is this.* Do you do the things that you will have to do once you are married that you are allowed to do outside of marriage for those who are in your life right now?* Do you pour love out in small things?* Do you show compassion in small things?* Men do you wash people in the water of the words?* Women do you reach out to other women who are lonely and save them from their loneliness?* Men are you working to be a provider and giving to the people around you?* Women do you work with eager hands like it says in Prov 31?* Men do you work to protect those around you... not just from physical danger which is a little thing to God, but most importantly from spiritual danger and sin which "kills the soul"?* Women do you extend your hands to the poor and reach out to the needy (prov 31 also)?* Men do you love those around you even though it is so unnatural for you to do so as you will need to do when you have a wife?
There is no cookie cutter system to get God to bless us, but he is always faithful, and when we read the manual we oftentimes find that the answers are a lot more simple than we make it out.* If we are not faithful in small things why would the Lord trust us with such a large blessing as a spouse?* The truth is, it really isn't a big deal, but it does take consistency to be faithful in these things... and it does take hard work and your dilligence in small things will be blessed.
now true love will be denied for a mom who does not approve of me cause of my past just cause my family is muslim really?
"For My people have committed two evils:
They have forsaken Me, the fountain of living waters,
And hewn themselves cisterns—broken cisterns that can hold no water." [Jeremiah 2:13]
If you want to move on with your life, and feel perpetual happiness and contentment at all times, there is only one solution: to make sure that you are satisfied by God. I'm speaking like a hypocrite, but we should strive to attain this state: when our relationship with God is so strong that we continually feel his presence before us, when we fear nothing and need nothing because we feel Him always with us, when we no longer depend on material things to give us happiness.
"A satisfied soul loathes the honeycomb,
But to a hungry soul every bitter thing is sweet." [Proverbs 27:7]
we shall not hurt people just because we feel it is not the lords will the lord gave us a mind to work with